Change the word. Change the answer.
Same question. Different door. Curiosity opens it.
Open it, fill it out, keep it.
Knowing what to do, how to do it & why it matters. One objective, the two commitments that protect it, the planning matrix, and the honest questions at the end of the period.
Open & fill ↓ DownloadThe weekly cadence. Three accomplishments from this week, six planned for next week, and one teammate who went the extra mile.
Open & fill ↓ DownloadPrep one opportunity. Frame it, score fit and readiness, map who has a say, and leave knowing what they want to improve.
Open & fill ↓ DownloadPick the buying influence, their mode, what they value and your timing — the builder frames your outreach on the 5-Step framework. You bring the specifics.
Open the builder →Most sales training teaches people what to pitch. This one teaches people how to think.
There are three kinds of awareness. Tap each to open it.
Clarity
- What is this event actually supposed to accomplish?
- What would make this conversation worth their time?
- What do I want to be true when we hang up — a hold, a site visit, a date?
Motive
- Why does this event matter — attendance, revenue, membership, morale, or a milestone year?
- Why now? A rotation decision, a budget cycle, a competition season, a board vote?
- Why should they trust us with it — what have we earned so far?
People
- Who has a say — Decision Maker, Guardian, User, Coach?
- Who carries the day-of stress — the planner, the program lead, the chaperones?
- Who haven’t I accounted for — procurement, finance, a third-party planner, the housing bureau?
Measure
- How will they know it worked — attendance, spend, feedback, renewals?
- Where have they been going — another destination, another venue, a planner?
- What are they judged on — budget, attendee experience, or the story told after?
Movement
- What am I asking for — a site visit, a courtesy hold, a proposal?
- What’s the smallest commitment that keeps this moving?
- What do I owe them when we hang up, and by when?
Let’s stop asking “What question gets me a site visit?” & start asking “What question uncovers their Mode?”
The best questions are simple, conversational, and easy to answer — the kind that don’t feel like discovery. Work them in this order, and each answer opens the door to the next:
Establish context without sounding like discovery.
- What do you know about the program so far?
- Where have you taken it in the past?
- How many are you expecting, and who’s traveling?
- Are you planning this internally, with a planner, or both?
- Has anything changed since last year?
- What’s hardest to get right with a group this size?
- What are you focused on this year?
Where most of us struggle. Instead of asking about facts, ask about experience — these seven tell you almost everything about their Mode.
- How’s that been working for you?
- How do you feel about where the planning stands today?
- What’s been the biggest challenge?
- What’s been the most frustrating part?
- What’s taking more time than it should?
- Where do you feel the most pressure — budget, attendance, or the attendee experience?
- If you could change one thing about the last one, what would it be?
People don’t buy the venue. They buy improvement.
- What would make this program a success?
- What’s most important to improve from last year?
- If the whole thing went exactly right, what changes?
- What would make the biggest impact on your attendees?
- What’s costing you the most today — time, budget, or attendance?
- What would free your team up on-site?
- Where do you think the greatest opportunity is?
Timing separates a real opportunity from a someday.
- Why is this important now?
- What’s driving the timing — a date, a budget cycle, a season?
- What happens if nothing changes?
- When do you need dates and space confirmed?
- What made this move to the top of your list?
Know who matters before you go further.
- Besides yourself, who else is involved in the decision?
- Who ultimately signs?
- Who runs it on-site?
- Who else would want to weigh in — finance, procurement, the board?
- What does success look like for them?
“It sounds like [Situation] is creating [Impact]. If there were a way to [Improvement], would it be helpful to see how?”
“It sounds like attendance slipped last year and the team spent the whole week putting out fires. If there were a way to give people a reason to show up — and take the on-site load off your staff — would it be helpful to see how that would work?”
- Growth “It sounds like you’re looking to…” → improvement
- Trouble “It sounds like this is creating…” → relief
- Even Keel “It sounds like things are working, but…” → possibility
- Overconfident “It sounds like you’re comfortable with where things are…” → curiosity
These are the questions you ask the planner — and each buying influence behind them. Decision-Maker phrasing is shown; tap any question to see how to ask the same thing of the Guardian, User, or Coach.
Defines the outcome — clarity
Reveals the process — reality
Identifies friction — truth
Tests commitment — decision
- Group size and profile fit our venues and programs.
- Their dates work against our calendar and park operations.
- We solve a real attendance, budget, or logistics problem.
- Attendance & total spend support the effort.
- The program is annual or has recurring potential.
- Opens the door to the whole organization.
- Access to the planner or decision maker.
- The destination is the draw — not just any venue.
- Trust can be earned before contracts are due.
- Last year’s program fell short — attendance, energy, or results.
- They want a destination people are excited to travel to.
- Planners want it simpler to run.
- A program or event budget exists.
- A deposit & contract pathway is clear.
- Leadership or the board is bought in.
- Dates are set or close to it.
- Headcount and space needs are known.
- Dates won’t hold at this size for long.